Winter Nourishment

As the days grow thicker and colder, it is much more desirable to stay indoors than go out. Although some like the cold weather and find themselves doing sports no matter what.

Keep your hands warm and your heart warmer. Find something you love to do, and make that your passion for the winter. Even if your favorite thing is snuggling up next to your beloved and watching movies all the time, be sure to keep those senses fulfilled!

A nice cup of cocoa, or tea or coffee, a warm fireplace (or candles if you’re in an apartment), a snuggly blanket, a book or a movie and a friend, and you’ve got yourself on your way to snuggle heaven!

I love watching families walk to their cars, or a stranger holding a door, or even lovers give each warm embraced hugs. This time of year just make me think of lovers and families spending their precious moments together in laughter, fun and play! It is a time of togetherness, making memories and being with loved ones!

I wish for you much laughter, warmth and play with all those you love!

Love to All during this cold winter season!

How Girls Can Keep Your Yoni Smelling Sweet; and not fishy (and guys who want to help)!

Every woman knows that there is a certain odor that your body releases from time to time. Sometimes your body releases a powerful smell after having a passionate lovemaking session, and sometimes the lovemaking stops before it starts because the odor is so strong.

Men like their women smelling sweet and yummy; like a flower and not like they’re walking through the fish market. It’s a guys worst turn off when you get really close with each other and then just as he starts getting excited, a wave of air rushes over his body, and he gags in disgust, and instead of being honest and telling you he can’t stand the smell, he gets limp and decides to leave the room without giving much of a reason or warning. He swallows his heart and slowly; with caution, leaves the situation.

“Hunny, I have a headache”. Or, “Hunny, my stomach really hurts. I don’t feel well” etc.

But girls, I’m telling you, you are in complete control of this situation. You can make him crave you, or be repulsed by you; it’s your choice, but if you want to know how to make him want you every time you get close, do everything you can to make your body smell sweet and tasty.

  1. Drink LOTS of water!
  2. Go on a green binge, and eat lots of veggies!
  3. Go on a raw food quest.
  4. Eat sweets, dairy and sugar in moderation. The vagina takes in yeast products like a sponge. If you eat anything that will develop candida, your body will smell like a fish store, so do it in moderation.
  5. Cleanse the candida as a regular habit; take acidophilus and eat more veggies!
  6. Eat apples, bananas, oranges; any fruit will do, but stop when your body tells you to; they have sugar in them too!
  7. Don’t eat too much pineapple or mango. They have the most sugar of any fruit.
  8. Drink Chamomile tea!
  9. Go on a detox regularly.
  10. Drink more water!
  11. Go to the health food store or book store and buy a book on candida cleanses, yeast free products, or eating yeast free! All women need this!
  12. When all is said and done, go please your man!
  13. Use Feminine Deodorant spray’s and wipes as a last resort; but don’t rely on them.
  14. Use essential oils for healing candida, and drink more water!
  15. Just breathe; it will go away. It’s all temporary. The body is made of 70% water, so if you just wait a couple days it will soon pass.
  16. Another thing for guys – if you’re horny and you’ve had this issue for a while, get a nice hot bowl of bubble or pure aromatherapy water. Lay your woman down and rub her with the warm wash cloth. It will turn her on and make you happy too!

Guys, pass this on to your girls!



More later…. Asttarte Deva

Women in Their Sexual Prime – Very Adult Posting

There comes a time in a man’s life when they reach their sexual peak, and there comes a time in a woman’s life when they’ve reached their sexual prime.

It has now been 2 years since I’ve healed completely from the rape, since post partum, have completed my relationship with my mom and we’re close for the first time in my life (since I was 4) and am now doing Power Yoga classes again and getting back into shape and I’m only 2 MONTHS away from my 37th Birthday; the year women begin their cycle of explosive sexuality and passion. Given this is who I already was before, now it has reached a new height.

I feel like I did in my early twenties, when I had to masturbate or have sex practically every day to feel content. I was an extremely sexually promiscuous girl in my teens and twenties, and now, in my prime, that energy reaches new heights and with a lot more consciousness and wisdom.

I have this amazing purple vibrator I had gotten in my Passion Parties Business Kit a couple years ago. When I had decided to put the business on hold I gave most of the products away to friends, but kept that one to myself.

It is better than the famous pink Rabbit. It doesn’t have beads that spin around in one place, but the entire shaft rotates around in small circles; like a stick shift that goes up and down with gears, it moves in a circular direction massaging every wall inside the yoni (the front, back and sides) and it has an additional mini vibrator that sticks out just for massaging the clitoris and the lips. Every girl needs this thing! Until I find a new friend to play with on a regular basis, this will have to do.

Seriously, I’ve never had this much energy in my life; not that I remember. I’m going to have to commit to dancing Friday nights (except when I have a meetup or date, getting back into athletics, my purple friend and pray for a Daka Lover, or Dakini; NO, not just anyone will do. Perhaps I could write a sex column, like Carrie in Sex in The City, or be like Samantha again and go wild, or perhaps I could start a Group Coaching Monthly Phone Session for Men & Women Sexually Repressed, and coach them to SEXUAL FREEDOM! Maybe I need to pray, more meditation, paint, sing, more writing, maybe I need a miracle, maybe Bellydancing again; maybe something else!


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A Little About Me & Some Thoughts

  • I’m a total Sandra Bullock fan! She’s a Leo with a moon in Taurus. Totally hysterical!
  • I also love Jennifer Aniston, Sex and the City, Diane Keaton, Bette Midler, Kate Hudson, Ryan Reynolds, Ben Stiller, Ben Affleck, Hugh Grant, Patrick Dempsey, Colin Firth, Renee Zellweger, Adam Sandler, Reese Witherspoon, Isla Fisher, John Cusack, Meet the Fockers, any movie on magic and anything funny (I mean REALLY funny ~ No dark humor please).
  • I love Sci-Fi, Humor, Romance, Adventure and loads of kids movies! (Yes, my son and I do have a blast together!)
  • I can’t really stand living in Philadelphia, but I’ve been here forever (I’d much rather be in NY or somewhere else). Although, I’m very close with my family and I’m lucky to have them.
  • It really irks me when clients schedule and then casually cancel. I’m not rich and I often have very little money in my pocket doing this work, so do me a favor and DON’T cancel! I don’t request a deposit but someday I might, so please follow through on what you say. I can understand that it probably upsets others that I don’t check my voicemail religiously and those of you that are waiting I’m sorry. I suppose I deserve that.
  • I love being a mom AND I can’t stand it!
  • If it wasn’t for spending the past 15 years healing my childhood, and having been raped and all that (which I have COMPLETELY healed by the way), I’d be pursuing my childhood dream of being an actress instead of this, but perhaps someday I can be both!
  • I have 3 brothers that I love and am very close to and I sometimes have to tone down what I promote online to make them happy (as well as some other family members). I try to keep everyone happy, but it isn’t always easy.
  • I, on the other hand, would prefer having sex every day and 2 to 3 times a week I would be very content.
  • I’m not shocked by much. I’ve heard it all.
  • Whoever anonymous person that sent me those Sexual Addict books, Thanks! I’m not a sexual addict. I’ve been patiently waiting for a boyfriend to be sexually open for 5 years (I’m retiring from that job – but I’ll still keep an open heart – yes it’s usually the guy waiting for the girl). However, it’s a great reference book for clients or those who need it.
  • I love sexy and gorgeous girls (as much as I love sexy and gorgeous men).
  • The funnier the better!
  • Yes, I do love to write, but I also love to sing, dance, make art and be outdoors!
  • I love REALLY great vibrators!
  • I prefer to be with groups of people, but I’m often alone.
  • I love doing these sessions, but only when people want them.
  • If you have a question, ask me!
  • I love all people; even those that sometimes drive me nuts!
  • I love learning and I will probably always take new classes, except when I’m teaching.
  • Sex is really important to me, and so are a lot of other things.
  • I believe in miracles!
  • I love seeing children laugh. And, I can’t stand seeing rage-ful parents with kids!
  • I love it when you are willing to cry. It shows me you are strong.
  • Anything is possible if you believe!
  • Love is always there underneath any feeling, even if you can’t see it and think it doesn’t exist.
  • Most people are more afraid of showing love than fear.
  • I have a positive outlook on life and believe in the good of mankind.
  • I’d rather watch happy news than all the negative. Although, it’s sometimes important to talk about negative things that are going on in the world, don’t dwell on it! You’ve lost my interest if you do.
  • I believe any relationship troubles can be resolved, but only if BOTH people are willing to work through them.
  • Everyone deserves to have great sex. And no sex is sometimes better than bad sex.
  • The myth that women who have had babies need large dicks, is, for the most part…pretty true!
  • If you’re not going to have sex with me, you can at least use your hands and tongue.
  • Guys like women to seduce them, but women love the same thing.
  • Don’t give up before you get started.
  • Wounded women or going through PMS need sex MORE often; not less. They’re lying to you if they say different.
  • If a woman’s giving you the cold shoulder and not talking to you, just seduce her. It will pretty much resolve everything.
  • Women who are mom’s do need a girls night out, but more importantly, they need a babysitter to take the kids, and for YOU to take control of their bodies; not for minutes; but for HOURS!!!!
  • I love going out to eat at good restaurants and I love to party; when I can find the right crowd (that’s what Tantra Communities are for)!
  • Sex with 3 or 4 people is definitely more exciting than 1.
  • I used to work at a Gentleman’s Club and loved it!
  • I thought about being a porn star, but it was ALWAYS just a thought.
  • Most people are sexually repressed, and have one area or another of Sexual Wounding to heal, but most people think that they don’t need to heal, when in fact you can ALWAYS expand yourself to another level, and it gets to the point of being VERY fun!
  • I’d rather be honest than keep everything inside. The more honest you can be, the more in touch with your power you are, and the more passionate you become.
  • Life is meant to be fun, but sometimes it takes a little work!
  • Everyone is precious and deserves a chance!
  • Sex can heal anything, and Tantra practices that is. Asttarte Deva