Arousal as Energy Movement

Arousal as Energy MovementArousal as Energy Movement

What happens after a relationship ends, or you have taken an enormous amount of time to be alone? (The relationship might as well be over if that’s the case). And definitely the case if your partner had a fear of intimacy. (Search the keyword Intimacy for more posts on this topic).

What happens to your body after you’ve gone through the grieving and letting go process, and you’re ready to start dating again, or having an interest in connecting with others after all that time?

What usually happens, is your body will start telling you that you are ready. It will have desires with certain people you are attracted to, or give you sudden urges and nudges to push you to talk to someone. But what happens when you’re by yourself, and you are starting to finally open up again after all that time alone? Your body may have waves of energy movement, or jolts of sudden arousal. It may feel orgasmic, but then when you go to pleasure yourself, you may still feel certain blocks to experience a full body experience of arousal, i.e.. orgasm.

The arousal is your bodies way of telling you that you have gotten through most of the grieving process of your ex lover (husband, wife, etc) and it has achieved a level of balance, equilibrium and harmony of energy and wants to move to a higher place of joy. You completed the cycle of sadness, solitude and aloneness after the hard core break up. You took the time you needed to rest, recover, release anxiety, stress and sadness from your previous beloved, and now your body has awaken, and it wants to wake you up to match how it feels.

It can happen anywhere; your kitchen while you are cooking a meal, your car while singing to a song you love, cleaning your home, reading, talking to a friend, or even meditating or taking a bath. When your body is ready to open to a higher level of pleasure, it doesn’t matter what you are doing or who you are with. It will move and rise within you no matter what!

If you talking to a friend in person or over the phone and you definitely don’t want that friendship to turn into something different, be careful! You may want to hang up the phone or leave the current situation to allow your body to experience how it’s feeling. Otherwise, that friendship might just turn romantic pretty quickly!

If you want the friendship to turn into something else, and your friend had been waiting for you to be ready and open, awesome! Or, you are neutral and don’t care if this person will remain your friend or turn into something else, that may be time to have a discussion. However, if you have the discussion on the spot, changes will happen almost dramatically! A more rational stand would be to walk away, take care of yourself, and then talk to your friend later after the feeling of sexual arousal and frustration has calmed down.

I’ve discovered a practice called the Deer Exercise for women and men in my recent search on this topic. This is a taoist energy practice to help move and awaken someone who has been suppressed or shut down for a long time. If you are no longer suppressed and feel the energy already excited, this practice may actually just balance you and help release some of the pent up sexual frustration, and perhaps help you relieve the sexual frustration a little easier. However, I find the Shamanic Breathwork and Tantra Meditations to be more powerful. Whatever you choose is your choice, and your body will let you know what is best!

Feel free to give the Deer Exercise a try. Who knows it might help! If anything it will help keep your energies open and your body in overall health and vitality! Enjoy!

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Sexual Energy and Stress

Sexual Energy and Stress Sexual Energy and Stress

When your sexual energy is missing, there is often a reason. Perhaps your energy is going towards dealing     with a stressful situation. Perhaps you are taking on the energy at work.  Perhaps someone you love needs   your attention and support, or maybe you are exhausted or dealing with something in your body that is   causing your energy to give it its attention.

If you are at the affect of your surroundings, it will impact your energy in your own body, your level of   stress, your vitality and your passion.  And, also, when you are going through a health situation that is   taking up most of your bodies energy, that too will deplete your sexual energy and cause your body to put its energy where it is needed.

Keep in mind, all of these situations are temporary. You have the power to purify your energy and come back to your vitality, and you have the power to regain your health, and bring back your bodies natural resources, gifts and qualities.

Don’t push pressure on yourself to be perfect and have your ultimate natural sexuality the way it was before. Know that it will return, and you have the power to do so. And, your best quality is patience with yourself, love for your body and knowing who you are, and surrendering to the present moment so you can do your spiritual practice, your healing practice and your health routine.

What are you dealing with in your health that is affecting your sexuality?

What you are dealing with in your life that is causing you stress, anxiety or repression in your sexuality?

Let’s meet together to do a spiritual practice, chakra healing and energy purification to help the process along!

If you have questions, please ask!

Love,

Asttarte

Purifying the Chakras

Purifying the Chakras

Purifying the ChakrasWelcome to the gift of your spirit, the zest for life, a nurturing energy that purifies the heart, opens your throat, your speaking and creativity, your intuition, your wisdom, your passion for love, and a center to ground you to your truth once again.  When one’s chakras are clouded, mucky, and stuck, so too is ones life, their heart and their spirit and the energy that brings ones journey to feel nurtured, loved, fulfilling and supportive of their true calling; their passion and drive and the very source of what makes life worth living.

I love how spirit reminds me of the importance to be pure, and when I am not, life shows up as the same. As I purify myself, and my energy is thriving, so too is all life around me. Each chakra has a significant importance to a very specific area of your life, your energy, your bodies flow, the emotional nature you are made up of, and the very core thing that drives you to be as natural and authentic as you!

There are many books on the chakras, and many teachers who bring wisdom of insight on the chakras. However, I like to remind those with interest, the importance and relevance the chakras have on every single aspect of our lives, and how all parts of our lives are impacted by the level of clarity our chakras exist in. You may find knowledge on the chakras through yoga, or chi gung, or reiki, taoism, chinese medicine, ayurveda, massage, different religions, books on meditation, health, psychology, and many others.  However, not one will be more right than the other. They all have wisdom and they all have truth.

“To be pure is to be you, and to be you is the greatest gift life has to offer!”

When we are clouded, we are letting life control us. When we take the time to become clear, and pure, we bring a freshness to life that offers a new set of eyes each and every time we cleanse ourselves to our wholeness again! Choose to be clear, and you choose to be you! I will choose me over and over again! I hope you too, choose your true self every time!

The root chakra, anchors you to the earth, helps one feel secure, connected to their bodies and the world around them.

The second or sacral chakra is ones center of creativity, their relationship portal and the openness or closeness one has to be intimate with others.

The third or solar plexus, is ones control and power center, and the area one allows to be controlled by others or to choose to take control of ones life in their own hands.

The heart or 4th chakra, the area of giving and receiving love, the most basic human need, and yet often the one many block or resist out of fear, sadness or worry.

The 5th or throat chakra, the area of ones speaking their voice, their truth, to be heard what is deep inside of them, and the place their creativity leaves the body.

The 6th or third eye center, where one can see the future, their intuition, inner wisdom, insight, ability to trust in the unknown, and receive spiritual guidance and messages.

The crown or 7th chakra, where one is connected to spirit, God, the infinite and the essence to all that is; where one feels the openness to their innocence and the sacredness to the divine.

I am grateful for another opportunity to be cleared, and a vehicle to open the door to wisdom, and a place for my creativity to be opened and anchored in the world! I hope you all have a chance to create clarity for yourselves and the support to allow the purity to unravel. If not, let us set the tone for another opportunity to grow! Feel free to call or email and ask for support as you need it!

As my beloved Sufi friend says, “People are medicine for the people!”

Many Blessings and love, light and sunshine!

Asttarte

Let Drama Fade

Let Drama Fade

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Let Drama Fade

Often times, when there is drama going on around you, with clients, friends or others, without knowing it, it can effect our marriage or significant relationship(s) and cause us to feel distant, in need to take space to be alone and cleanse ourselves from the interactions with others.

When speaking to those who are going through something intense, if they are dear to you and you care for them, the best thing you can do to help them sometimes is to pull back and walk away giving them time to process and heal in their own time. Sometimes we have to let friends or people we love go in order to continue in our own growth and progress, and to keep our marriages and relationships happy.

Every single person we interact with every single day, whether through texting, skype, the phone, email, instant messaging, Facebook, twitter, video chat or in person all effects us on some level. And how sensitive we are to their drama, to their pull on our energy or sadness at their distance will affect our most significant partnerships. It may show up as though the partnership is having difficulty, but in fact its something else. Not everyone has words to express these experiences. Some people choose to keep their outside experiences to themselves. Some partners choose to share everything. However, what you share or what you don’t share will bleed into the very important aspects of your life.

Give your friend or client, etc a break and without feeding into their need for your continued attention, just separate. Don’t respond. Let time pass. Let them heal, and in the process, take care of your own energetic needs. Keep your energetic space clean and be a leader in ending the drama; just don’t give into it. Perhaps they will reach out to you again later and realize what they were doing, perhaps they will never learn, or perhaps they will come back later and apologize.

When you take care of your relationships that are going on around you, you are also taking care of the relationship to yourself and to your most significant loved one(s).

Pink Tantra

Exciting – All Things New!

Exciting – All Things New!

Blessings Beloveds, or those few who find me here,

Today is a new day, and I am here to celebrate! Perhaps this post will cross the boarder to all my blogs, but who knows! It is time now to say good bye to struggle, and survival mode, and move into thriving and celebrating! I am onto bigger and greater things and as I speak, I give forth the ideal of perfection within my soul’s consciousness and midst of dramatic confusion! I have begun a couple new blogs the past month or so, and am raveling in the glory of speaking the truth of who I am; not that I didn’t speak the truth before, but every new layer adds to the dimension of pleasure and joy in this body! As we all open our hearts and our souls, so too does our body follow!

My grandmother had passed in June, and in this she gave me the greatest gift, and I still feel VERY close to her even in her angelic state. I feel as though she is now watching over me, protecting, guarding me and perhaps too guiding me! I surrendered to prayer when she left, and opened my heart back to the written word; the bible, and also to my craft, in wicca, and also to my prayer with Hindu mantras, and too with Buddhist mantras, as well as sensing the presence of angels, and laying down to rest each night feeling the presence of her and my angel guides beside me. My dear son and I now hold new crystals we have fallen in love with during our rest, for continued healing, prayer and meditation. We have discovered amazing mala’s made out of crystals that heal specific conditions and they are helping us on multiple levels!

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I started a new blog yesterday, called: MusingsofASolitaryWitch.wordpress.com, and it perhaps will be my fun and crafty site; something I’ve kept in the dark for VERY long, but something that truly has helped me all these years, as I integrate reiki, intention, working with angels and prayer in every practice, and only have the intention for love, light and healing with every practice and for anyone who chooses to ask me to craft up an intention ritual for themselves.

My other blog with lots of info on all World Religions, as well as some of the beautiful mala’s I have acquired is here: Universal Wisdom. I placed a new post to my Tantra Blog yesterday as well, about the wonderful crystals, and especially some for the chakras and kundalini! AwakenToLiving.com.

My intention is have my rent paid by Wednesday, and I KNOW it will happen. I surrender and let go!

The Monad The I Am Presence

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The Monad The I Am Presence

What is the Monad (pronounced Mone-Ad)? This is the energy center above your physical body, a part of your soul body, on the very outer layer of your entire energy field. It can also be described as the energy connecting your physical body to the infinity of the universe. The Monad IS your infinite self and the self that is beyond the physical body; expanded out into the universe perhaps a thousand or a million miles away. Christians perhaps would call this space heaven, and see it as the energy in the clouds way above the physical earth. This is partially right, however, the Monad is your connection to the universe and the connection to your endless cosmic self; at the same time.

There is an energy above your head that looks like a tube of light that expands above the body and reaches up above the head to infinity. This tube of light is called the Antakharana. The space of infinity is the Monad. And the portal that connects your physical body to your Monad; the Antakharana, can often get clouded by living in a physical body, or from traumas from having lived on the physical earth. In order to clear the pathways to create a clean and precise channel of energy flowing from your physical body to your infinite body, the higher chakras and outer laters of the human energy field must be purified and cleansed.

The Soul Chakra or Soul Star is about 8 feet above your head and is the most significant chakra on the outer layers of the human energy field. A human being who is sick can go to the doctors for an illness, or a pattern of illnesses and continue getting sick, but when the energy around the human body is not purified, this same person can spend their entire lives going to the doctors (psychiatry or medical) while looking for a cure for what ails them. When this same person begins a journey of healing their energy field (the aura), their chakras, the different layers of the outer bodies around the human body, and purifies their connection to source/God/infinity, they can then heal not only their physical body but also their entire spiritual self.

The Soul Chakra gets filled with the stress from the physical body as the physical body continues to cleanse and release its patterns and stresses. The Soul Chakra is like the sponge and is waiting to be purified of all you have let go of. It is still lingering around in this Chakra and all that you have healed from or cleared will still be close at hand until this Chakra is also cleansed. This is one of the first chakras from the physical body, above the Crown Chakra, and as this layer is cleansed, your toxins continue to cleanse higher and higher up the ladder to the Monad. When the entire portal is cleansed you become one with all that is, and in a sense, feel as though you ARE God, or you are no longer a physical body. It brings you back to the reminder that you are a spirit; not just a physical body, but also the Soul. And when you leave this physical body, you will still go on; taking refuge in a new body once you leave the one you are presently living in today.

You are an infinite being, with infinite energy, and infinite resources to become enlightened, empowered, and purified. The energy body around your physical body is like a science unto itself, and the medical system today, has a very limited resources to its power. When you cleanse all that is around you, you also cleanse all that is within you. Like a sponge, when the energy around your physical body is purified and healed, is takes on the energy of the physical body to purify yet again, as one layer of cleansing leads into another. The entire human race could heal completely of all traumas, all physical ailments and toxins and all human conditions when they heal not only the physical body, but also the entire energy body; the self that they are around the their physical body. There is a huge world of healing untapped when one spends their life trying to healing only on the physical level. Their may be lessons for them to learn that they are not getting. However, once they tap into their spiritual self and tune into the depth and power of who they are at an energetic level, they only begin to see their full potential, their true power, and true healing finally arises.

Healing the Wounded Self

Healing the Wounded Self

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Healing the Wounded Self, the chakras and Grief

When it comes to starting a path of self discovery and inner healing, most people start with the heart chakra or the crown chakra. They don’t get to the lower chakras until later, and in essence start with the heart chakra that has to do with love, abandonment, betrayal and loneliness. Or, the crown chakra that deals more with one’s spiritual connection to God, their faith, their spiritual beliefs and trust in a higher power.

Usually when one has been on the path for a long time, the healing of the chakras will recycle themselves and they’ll go around to healing many of the chakras from the beginning, and as they release many of the issues relating to all of them, they’ll come back again to where they originally had started.

Grief is a big issue in personal healing, and some don’t get to the deeper grief of their own wounding until many years after they start their own therapy treatment or healing journey. As I am moving through my own grief, in an actual death of someone very near and dear to me; my grandmother, I am reminded of the value and significance of grief in one’s personal growth and development as a whole person.

When you allow yourself to cry, you move the energy of water through your body. As water moves, it makes room for more love, and in essence, the grounding nature of earth to settle once again. When someone does not allow themselves to cry, when in truth, their is something deep emotional inside that their body wants to release, the water then turns into ice, and becomes solid into the self as a whole. As water becomes ice, the person can then become armored and movement that might be possible is blocked. This is often how anger shows itself, and the water turns to fire and tries to release in this form instead, but many don’t know how to move the anger when it shows up, or try to swallow it so they don’t release their pain onto others; and in essence it goes deeper into the self and becomes hidden. Eventually it will show up again, but when the individual can cry out their grief, and allow themselves to really feel the deeper emotions hidden within, in the moment the feelings present themselves, they can then become free again, and feel much more love than before.

What is Shamballa Multidimensional Reiki?

 

 

 

 

~Shamballa Reiki ~
What is Shamballa Reiki?

‘Laying on of hands’ is very ancient form of art. Since time began, people have been doing it. Putting your hands on someone is a natural impulse for those who have been injured or are not well. An example of this, are mothers. A mother often puts her hands on the wounded spot when a child has been hurt. Human touch carries healing care and love. This energy is known by many names: Ruach in Hebrew, Prana in India, Chi in China, and Reiki in Japanese.

 

Energy is natural and is what Shamballa and Reiki practitioners use. However, the Shamballa healer has contact to this energy in a much more significant way since the practitioners are attuned and once attuned the healer’s energy is increased at a frequency much higher than what is naturally given to them upon birth. The attunements boost the healers own life energies, and unites the person to the source of Shamballa Reiki. This Source could be called anything that the healer desires: God, Goddess energy, the first Source, Energy, Chi, etc. Reiki has no connection to any religion, so one is free to call it what they like. I myself like to call this source Mother Father Creator God of all that is.

The method of an attunement is not a healing session. The Attunement initiation. The first initiation is known as Shamballa I. The person who receives this initiation has established a magical gift from Source. After receiving Shamballa I all one has to do is to place their hands on themselves or someone else and say (to themselves or out loud, as they wish) “Shamballa On!” The energy will flow. is what creates the healer after the first

After someone starts to practice using the energy, they may go through a whole of experiencing things that they had never seen or felt before. Some feel more than others. Some feel nothing, but never the less are still channeling the energy. Some see more than others, some sense more than others, and some may not feel a change in their abilities at all. However, they will most often feel heat or tingling in their hands. “It is like plugging in.” Every time you lay your hands on yourself or someone else, the energy is there. All you have to do is call on it. The intention is what holds the key.

Shamballa is not only intended for those who wish to become healing practitioners. “It is also for people who want to become whole themselves.” The Shamballa attunements make it possible for someone to heal himself or herself. The attunements of Shamballa make it possible for you to heal yourself, both physically and spiritually. With Shamballa, you are able to break habits and addictions, to heal yourself on a mental and emotional level. People who are suffering problems with health and who have mental imbalances should receive Shamballa attunements. It is simple to do Self-healing by using the hand positions that are taught in the Shamballa course. These positions are not only for healing yourself, but they are also used for healing others. After the attunement has been it is a good idea to do a self-healing When it is possible, one should also practice on others. Practicing on others or yourself helps to settle into the energy and become used to it. This is a process and takes several months to adjust to the energies. Be patient with yourself, as the transition may be a rough one, but after the period of cleansing it will be very rewarding. session daily.

When you embark on the quest of Reiki, and especially Shamballa, it is very often the case where you heal one problem, which then leads to healing others. And this is very important to be aware of. Pain is often felt in a completely different place in the body than where the pain originated. For an example, headaches are often caused by emotional stress. “Healing the headache also heals the emotions. We should know as Shamballapractitioners that most of the dis-ease we suffer in the physical has its source in the emotional and mental bodies. If we root out the cause, the effect simply goes away. As healers we should encourage people to talk. By doing this, we can help them to discover the source of their dis-ease. We might hear some terrible stories, but we should not react to them. We should transmute the energy of fear into love, by being love ourselves. This really means that we give loving support to them. By allowing the healee to go through this process, we allow them to find out what is wrong. This may even be form past lives. If a person starts to get emotional and you are not experienced in dealing with this. Just ask the Shamballa guides to help you. Master Germaine especially has said that he is always available to Shamballa initiates. Stay calm and the universe will look after you. Know that after the release the healee will have grown a lot another thing to realize as a Shamballa healer is that it is not always possible to heal people, because the dis-ease that they suffer from might be a part of their soul’s purpose in this life. If this is the case, and the eventually die from it, know that death is also a healing process. Death is usually a lot less traumatic than being born! Modern societies try to deny the fact that death happens everywhere. They think that if they deny it, it won’t happen. Death happens everywhere, every day. You must realize that it is merely a transition. In this age, death can be avoided by the ascension process. This is a process of becoming light, and being able to stay awake and conscious through the dimensional change.” “Sometimes it happens that people block the healing. This usually occurs when they don’t believe in it. You must always first seek their permission to heal, and this will usually mean that they are open to it. But it could also be that they are feeling a little apprehensive in which case loving perseverance will soon release the block. Remember, it up to the healee to choose whether or not they become whole.” “Shamballa relaxes and rejuvenates. Some would say that Shamballa cannot replace missing limbs or right congenital birth defects. I say that this is limiting the system. If it is not the souls choice to suffer this, in this life, I say that we can, with the aid of the Source, accomplish anything. The seed blueprint for creation is wholeness, and wholeness is Love. Reiki is love, so don’t limit yourself. Do every healing with the result firmly in your mind. This result of course is wholeness in accordance with divine will, whatever that might be. If you always looks for results in accordance with divine will, you will find that you can facilitate the healing of anything, even those that are usually described as terminal.”

“Don’t worry that you may take on the disease of others, because if you work with the Shamballa guides and the Source, this will not happen. The more healing that you do, the more healed you yourself become. Stick to the principles of Shamballa/Reiki, and don’t interfere with the religion and beliefs of others, and step into service with love. Allow yourself to LET GO, and let the Shamballa energy do the rest. Allow the magic into your life and become one with the Source. The more you let go, the more it will flow.”

“Age is no barrier with Shamballa. Infants benefit from the attunement, and it starts their life on a path of service. Senior members of society benefit from being able to heal themselves and others. Shamballa is not only for those that want to heal others; it is for everybody. Being attuned to the Source brings wholeness.”

 

 

This information was taken from the Ascended Master Germaine, through John Armitage (Hari Das Melchizedek) Shamballa Multidimensional Healing Manual.